Skip to main content

The Idol of Self and How to Identify It

Hello friends!

Lately, I have been going through a bit of a "writer's block". It is a lot easier for me to scroll on my phone and be inspired by the myriads of Christian articles, posts and pins that get my wheels turning in my head as I think, "Oh, that is such a good topic to write about!", and yet, I continue to scroll.

I also have become newly acquainted with podcasts (yeah, I am not current or trendy in the slightest...) and have been listening to a few as I walk my dog, tidy the house, or even just sitting on the couch, trying to be inspired. Despite the many great biblical studies I have listened to, I could not get myself to write!

The number one key to writer's block is to ignore the hesitation, and just write- which is so hard to do! I had to peel myself away from my phone, ignore the sporadic buzzes from notifications and just... type.

However, forcing myself to write is a blessing, in that I can finally surrender to a few thoughts on my mind, releasing them through my fingers as I pour into the words on this screen.

I wish I could say I was, "putting pen to paper" instead of "typing on a screen"... it sounds so much more poetic that way. 

Oh well. ;-)

Perhaps I am procrastinating, so let's just dive into my ten cents today!

As many people may know about me, I am a runner, but I also love to exercise in general. I love taking walks with my dog. I like trying to stay hydrated. I generally stick to a decent diet (however, my sweet tooth often gets the best of me). So sure, I am a relatively physically healthy person. 

However, I have recently come to the understanding that although taking care of my body is great, it is just one aspect of stewardship God has given me, and I know I have tried to make it more than that.

I have definitely worshipped the idol of Health.

I have worshipped the idol of Fitness.

I have worshipped the idol of Goals.

I have worshipped the idol of Self-Care.

Do you get the idea?

We may not even use the exact terms I listed, but I feel like they tend to be synonymous... These idols collectively push towards putting myself first and others second, which is 100% against Scripture. Correct me if I am wrong, but there is not a single verse in the Bible that uses the term, "Self-Care". There is no passage that tells us how we ought to maintain our exercise and diet to stay in shape. There is no Scripture that tells us how to love ourselves more.

Why?

Because we already so naturally put ourselves first. We already so naturally love ourselves too much.

The scary part is that, in this day and age, rather than Christians upholding Scripture's command to love God and others (which implies we focus on ourselves last), many have actually manipulated verses and passages to fit this multi-faceted idol of Self. 

My goal in future articles is to target key Bible verses, passages and terms that our culture has ripped out of context in order to "Christianize" many self-idolizing lifestyle practices.

Now, I can already expect the question here... Is this to say that taking care of ourselves is wrong? No. However, while taking care of ourselves is not sinful, it can become sinful when it takes over God's rightful place of worship in our lives. 

So how do we know when this idol of Self is present? It is not like you are going to walk into my home and see me literally bowing before some shrine entitled "Self-Care" or "Fitness Goals". Idols are never that obvious! 

Rather, idols are exposed in what encompasses our thoughts and actions. 

As I reflect on the past several months, I can easily say my mind was not meditating on God or Scripture... most often, I was thinking about my running schedule, or what and what not to eat to meet my health goals for the summer. 

I can easily say my daily practices hardly had anything to do with studying Scripture or doing anything to intentionally further Christ's Kingdom... and yet I managed to fit in every run, every workout, every protein shake I wanted to. On the days I did not read my Bible, I would forget, shrug and tell myself, "I will do that tomorrow". Yet, on the days I missed a run, you better believe I was in a bad mood and made others feel bad around me. Yikes.

So, I challenge you to reflect on your thoughts and actions. Is God encompassing your mind, your heart, your lifestyle? Or is it Self-Care? Is it your goals? Is it your physical health and wellness? Is it the idol of Self?

I intend to come back to this topic and draw it further as I bring a few verses to light that may be misrepresented in the health-crazy culture we live in, and how we can put health and wellness back in its proper place so we can serve God the way He designed us to.

If anything, this article feels more like a confession than advice, but I hope I at least gave an honest foundation to build on. :-)

-GB


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The Truth About Confidence

Dear gym rats, If someone were to ask you,  "Why do you like working out so much?",   how would you respond? Think about it. Respond in your head.  To those who do not enjoy working out in any way, shape, or form, why do you think some others work out so much? Go on, answer in your head. Or out loud. That might be a little weird, but whatever floats your boat. I am just going to guess that in your train of thought, the word, "confidence", came up, or perhaps a branched-out version of it such as "self-confidence", "self-esteem", something like that. Was I right? I know, for me, that word, confidence, came to my mind! Now, what if I were to tell you that, as a child of God, confidence is really not all it is cracked up to be.  What if I said that confidence really should not be part of that "why" statement at all? When I am talking about confidence right now, I am referring to SELF-confidence. Keep that in mind. Perhaps you are scoffing...

Little Moments Matter!

My reflection on this morning... Plopped in my small, cushy living room chair, with a hot cup of coffee that I over-creamed and a Bible on my lap, I am studying the passage of 1 John 4:10-21; my eyes brush across the words of verse 16, "So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him." At this time, my train of thought is brought to halt when I hear the obnoxious squeaking of Blue's ball. I glance over to see Alex laying on the couch, squeaking away while Blue is going nuts trying to attain the ball from Alex... "Alex! Would you be quiet ?!" I snap, my eyes glowering, "I am trying to read my Bible !" Without a word, Alex takes my attitude, quite accustomed to it. He resumes playing with Blue just a little quieter.  However, I am struck- dumbfounded at what I just did. I read the verse once again, but this time it felt as if Scripture was thrown...

Procrastination and Priorities

"I didn't have time to get that done today!" Have you ever said this before? This is my go-to excuse when important things on my "To-Do List" get ignored and pushed off to the next day... to the next day... and to the day after that. In a sense, it is true, I ran out of time to get that one thing done today, but it is not because I was busy doing other important tasks. It was not because other things I was doing were of higher priority- unless you consider Netflix and Instagram scrolling a high priority. I wince even just typing that. I am 100% guilty of procrastination, and that  is why I never get things done.  I have come up with every excuse and rationalization in the book to justify my laziness too, such as, "I deserve to treat myself to a break", "I do not have much going on today, so another episode won't hurt", "I am not even motivated to do my schoolwork; if I start now, my work will be bad quality".  Yeah, I ...